I was attracted to that girl. I had thoughts about courting her and having 2 gfs. I confess was so young then and I made bad decisions. (still made some bad decisions sigh) At one time I had lots of courage to ask her name and try to talk to her... I thought I had a big chance with that new boarder..
As the days pass I made a big mistake of telling ex that I think the new boarder was my soulmate(of course I warned her that it was a joke) BUT now I realize that struck a blow into ex's heart and now im very sorry for that. (still remorseful) That was my first big mistake..
The second was when we were talking and I mentioned that the new boarder was "pang display" while ex was i think "pang bahay" (not sure if that was it but i again unintentionally hurt her feelings) (im such a fuckin jerk). Those events contributed to the breakup, added with the fact that she was booming in her career (and lovelife with someone else lol kidding). One of other the reasons for the breakup was according to her nagkakasawaan na. Which for me up to now hindi pa pala ako nagsawa sa kanya. (well after 7 years the feeling is definitely not the same lol)
The fact is I screwed up, I let her go because I was so mayabang that I could find a replacement for her (Don't get me wrong, my primary reason for letting her go is because I want to give her what she wants) (yeah yeah the palayain ang isa't isa thing).. Guess what happened after some years: Here I am alone, depressed and failed to move on.(after 7 years still depressed but not because of her.) And she I believe is so happy with her life (happily married :))...
The boarder girl I was fantasizing about: she's not living near us anymore she moved as well as my cuzns gf. I think she was marrried to her bf ( she has a bf/bfs when i fantasized about her). That did not work well, oh well atleast I knew her before I can even court her.. Anyways, what's done is done I still strive to move on even at times I fail to do so but its part of being human to commit mistakes over and over again.
Ive learned that the next relationship I have, I should always treasure like the previous one and try not to fall to traps/trials described above. Right now, the path to fixing my self continues and hopefully just like what barry manilow song's say I willl ready to take the chance again and hopefully I'll feel that feeling of being in love and be loved (cheesy bastard during those times lol)
there is still a lingering thought in me that states: what if those things didn't happen, what if we stayed together? well never know but one thing's for sure we may have different fates but it surely would be for our own good.
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