Random child rearing rant

I really want my own child/family, I do. Its just im not now financially stable to have a child. If having a child means feeding them and making sure that they have a good future then i say i cannot have one at the moment. I can take care of one, sure. I think im patient enough to understand and look out for one but my "male pride" would not permit myself from seeing my kid to be a financial concern and worry for my parents. Wait why am i thinking of having a child when i can't even have a gf...probably another blog will answer that riddle..